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One Year Gone  

Hey my precious boy. Its hard to believe you have already been gone one year. So much has happened and Im so glad you have allowed me to feel your pressence around me and your brothers and sister.

We visited your site today and released balloons at your tree. We added a new sign and cross today as well. I saw your hawk when we were getting back in the truck right before we loaded up Lisa and I saw your hawk fly over us and call out it was a comfort to us.

I took some photos and am leaving them on the site for others to see. We had some safety brochures as well with your information added to them and will be putting a box at the site on Saturday to leave them for everyone to take with them and each time we go we will leave more in the box so you can be a reminder to everyone to be safe and take extra precaution.

I miss you so very much and love you. Sweet never ending dreams my precious boy keep watching over us we feel you with us.

 


December 11, 2007 Austin's Voice  

Last night I spoke at an Orange County School Board Meeting. I was asked by a gentleman to please share our families story with the board members who are getting ready to vote on two options or propasals for zoning in a new school in there area.
Option 5  ( which I discuss in my follow up letter sent December 12,2007 to all school board members ) the students some 300 plus will have to cross a four lane road of traffic to get to the new school they would be zoned for. There will be crosswalks and hopefully crossing guards but the road in question is a 45 mile an hour zone and in the past 9 month 192 citations have been given 23 accidents including roll overs and DUI's and also a police chase. The students in question are elementary aged which means between 5-10 years of age. 
Option 6 ( which I also discuss in the letter ) would mean that those 300 plus children could go to school on there side of the road and not have to cross the road to get to school. The issue in Option 6 is that there is a new apartment complex that will potentially hold between 50-70 students in it and they would have to walk to the school - not crossing a busy road but walking next to it.
You will see in my note that I mention a third option to protect every single child. I wasn't sure last night when I left if I had done any good and I'm still unsure if my words did anything more then put a face with the statistics and numbers the board members are looking at. 
This is my follow up letter sent to the board members hoping they will truely hear Austins Voice that they will vote for SAFETY OVER DEMOGRAPHICS.
This will be an issue we discuss when we write our proposal for a bill we are hoping to get written to effect every county in Florida and change the laws hopefully to ensure safer measure for our HOPE being our children. 
I felt honored to have so many parents wanting me to speak on there behalf I only hope that my words and Austin's Voice have been heard.



Austin's favorite saying was
Don't walk behind me I may not lead
Don't walk infront of me I may not follow
Just walk beside me and be my friend.


Demographics are not as important Safety is. I feel strongly about this which is why I spoke last night at the board meeting regarding Austin's Voice. I fear my message was not heard due to my own emotions on the subject. I ask you all to read this before making your decision.
This board is given the unique opportunity to make a choice a choice that could mean 300 children crossing a 4 lane highway to get to school and the choice of a potential 50-70 students walking down a busy road. I don't know if its too late to consider a third option.
Keep option 6 how it is except one change the Apartment complex in question that addresses the 50-70 students change them from option 6 to the Option 5 location so they can be bussed then everyone is happy and the CHILDREN the HOPE is protected in all cases. If this is an option you can not make happen then choosing option 6 allows you to protect the mass number of students.
Austin was struck by an suv and his body thrown 69 feet this is something that could have been prevented and although there are already more safety measures in place then at his particular stop meaning you have crosswalks and you have crossing guards but when the crossing guards don't show up then what.
Austin was a straight A-B honor roll student who tested in the top 98% of the entire state of Florida on his FCATS. He was not a child who didn't pay attention or was reckless he was a child just like all of these children are. We are talking about Elementary children who are being asked to cross a busy 4 lane road to get an education.
PLEASE stop just looking at numbers and demografics. Color and race and finacial status of our neighbors shouldn't be the factor in this choice. You can make the fact be what it is SAFETY and safety must take presidence over the DEMOGRAPHICS.
A Board member addressed me last night and I appologize for not having her name but she said to me that the board members wouldn't be responsable for the loss of a child regardless of what option was chosen that it's the motorist who are not paying attention. The motorist who are not following the laws. She's absolutely correct in that the board members wont be the drivers who potentially take a life in this school zone area but, if you opt for Option 5 you as the board are allowing those children to be in potentially dangerous situations every day just to get an education. Florida law requires every student get an education rather home schooling or public types of education why is there no law stating the school board and zoning commisions must make sure every child has the safest possable way to there school. Option 6 although not perfect in every way protects the masses the 300 children who would be required in Option 5 to cross a four lane road.
I beg the board members and the community to choose Option 6 or modify it to include the apartment complex in question to still stayed zoned for the Option 5 school. This way every child in question is protected. I understand we may be to far in the process to modify any Option right now but this board is in a unique position to potentially protect every child you have the option of CHOICE and your choice will effect 300 plus children.
I ask you to listen to the public listen to your own self concious and vote for the option to protect children first. Hear Austin's Voice and make the only choice you can make SAFETY BEFORE DEMOGRAPHICS.

Sincerely

Stacy Ryckewaert
Mom of Austin


Austin Memories from Granny Lynn  
What can I say about my sweet, cherished grandson, Austin? Well, he was the apple of my eye; he was kind, generous, loving (well, until he got to the double digits and then he didn’t want his Granny giving him neck kisses anymore - he was too old for that), the best big brother any sibling could ask for, he was respectful, funny, and just plain smart - probably smarter than most kids his age.

Austin loved Scooby Doo when he was little. One Christmas Eve when Santa came to visit he changed the bedding on Austin’s bed all to Scooby stuff - sheets, pillow cases, blanket - the whole works. Santa also knew Austin loved Buzz Light Year and painted Buzz things all over his walls - even some with glow in the dark paint. When Austin awoke on Christmas morning we heard him screaming with glee at what all Santa had done and given him. That night when we tucked him into bed and turned out the light his excitement began all over again because he could see Buzz glowing in the dark. I’ve never seen a child so excited!

One day I was out in the front doing some work around the house and Austin (who was around 5 at the time) was out there with me. The neighbor girl, who was about 10 years older than Austin, was also out in her yard. I kept hearing Austin repeating something and he seemed to be walking around in circles. I went over to hear what he was saying and I couldn’t understand exactly what it was he was mumbling. I asked him what he was saying and he gave me this exasperated look and said, “Hubba, hubba!” Well, this made no sense to me and I asked him what was he saying that for and he gave me this look - like he just couldn’t believe I didn’t know what he was talking about. He responded that when you see a cute girl you said “Hubba, hubba” so others would know you thought she was cute! I’m not sure where he learned this, but he sure thought the girl next door was a cutie! To this day I can still see him in my mind and hear him saying “Hubba, hubba” and it still brings a smile to my face.

Austin and his family lived with me for about a year and during that time he was his Granny’s helper. He loved to help cook - anything! We’d get him a stool to stand on so he could use the mixer, beat the eggs, stir the mix - it didn’t matter - he loved it all. Breakfast, lunch or dinner - he always wanted to help make something - and he was good at it. He’d be so proud when we’d pull whatever he made out of the oven - he’d be beaming with pride.

In the mornings while his Mom was getting their stuff together to get out the door, he and Caleb would come up and sit with me while I got ready - usually while I “put my face on.” Well, my sweet little Austin one day asked me why I did that every day. I responded it helped me look pretty and he smiled at me and said “Granny, you don’t need that stuff - you’re pretty already!” Who could ask for anything better than to be told by your grandchild that he thinks you’re pretty just the way you are!

I remember Austin catching his first fish - a bream - in the creek behind my home. He was so delighted. And then he caught his first bass - from the same stream the same day. He thought he was a real fisherman! We’d go out in the evenings and throw food out for the fish to make them fat so he could catch them all over again (he used barbless hooks and practiced catch & release!). There was one that had big neon lips and he named her “Lips.” Every day he’d go out to feed them and would always look for Lips and would be so delighted he could pick her out from all the other fish.

What can I say about Austin? He was my pride and joy - he always made me laugh, smile and happy - no matter what. If I was sad he’d give me big hugs and tell me not to worry, not to be sad. Just being around Austin made me happy. Watching him grow up into a young man - we always called him our “little man” because that is what he was. He always took care of Caleb, Seth and DaKota - if something was wrong with one of them, or if they were not happy, he’d see to it that it’d get fixed or he’d do whatever he could to make them happy again. Austin was well beyond his 11 years of age. When his Aunt Betsy was diagnosed with breast cancer he was so distraught. He decided then he wanted to be a doctor and find a cure for cancer. Austin’s caring for others was phenomenal - he felt the pain of those around him. He hated bullying, he hated when others would be hurtful to handicapped children or adults. Austin just had a loving heart for everyone - no matter what color or age. He unconditionally loved those around him and asked for nothing in return.

Yes, Austin was the apple of my eye - because he deserved to be.

one of my favorite memories  
I remember the day Todd and I decided to get married back in 2003. Todd had already gone to Austin and Caleb to ask there permission for my hand but then we went to them together and wanted to make sure they were okay with us getting married if they wanted us to wait we would have. After all it was a family decision. I remember clearly asking Austin and Caleb and Austin grabbing hold of mine and Todds legs ( as we were standing together)  and saying " LETS GET MARRIED TODAY" he had this huge smile on his face and Caleb was jumping up and down yelling "We're getting married we're getting married." Austin and Caleb didnt grasp the concept there was a license to apply for and arrangements to be made they wanted it done right then and there. 

A week later we went to the Judge to marry us just Todd, Austin, Caleb and myself. Austin had  picked out my dress for me that day a purple dress with flowers on it in all different colors of purple. He was so proud. As we said our vows Austin heald tightly onto Todds pants and Caleb stood close to me. He and Austin heald hands while Todd and I heald hands and when the ceremony was over the two boys thanked the judge before Todd or I could even get the words out. They were both jumping up and down "we got married" both of them dancing in the judges chambers and the ride home Austin said "well if thats all he was gonna do why'd we have to wait? We really could have done that last week."    

I miss Austin his smile his laugh his witty humor and silly jokes. I miss how his hair smells first thing in the morning as I'd hug him tightly before he'd go to school. I miss everything about him every single minute of every single day. Sweet never ending dreams my precious boy.
Austins Legacy page  
We wanted to give Austins freinds and family and anyone who knew him to have aplace to post storys and memories. If you want to add something feel free if you can remember the date or month of the memory happening please let me know when you post it I will try and keep them in order of his life timeline. Thank you for thinking of my precious Austin and carrying him with you always.

One of Austins favorite sayings.....

Do not walk infront of me I may not follow .......

Do not walk behind me I may not lead........

Just walk beside me and be my friend. 

May we all learn to not be in such a hurry to judge others and just be willing to walk with them as Austin was.

Sweet Never Ending Dreams my precious boy. I Love you now and always and carry you with me forever.   MOM
 
Austin's favorite saying  

Don't walk in front of me I may not follow..... 
Don't walk behind as I may not lead.......
Just walk besides me and be My friend......

Austin loved this saying and lived his life by it. He didnt want to be the leader and was to strong to just follow but those whos he was a friend to he touched and protected and honored.


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